Sometimes in order to change a negative situation into a positive one, you have to step outside of your comfort zone. Stepping outside of your comfort zone, varies from one person to the next. For some, stepping outside of the comfort zone could mean walking out their door and introducing themselves to three new people each week until they find the social connections they desperately desire. It could mean moving across the country to start an entire new life. For some, it could be applying for a job even though the idea of working terrifies you. It could be committing to smile at yourself 15 times a day. Yes, even smiling, can be outside your comfort zone. If you start this practice though you'll begin to notice the rest of the world doesn't look so bad.
In order to have positive change in your life you have to take action. A simple action that you can take now that you have a chi card ( available here: http://www.chi-card.com/activate.html ) or chi generator is to find three positive affirmations that resonate with you and place them on your chi generator or carry them with your chi card along with the optimism/success filter from the filter pack. Then simply focus on being the change you want to see.